TMI Tuesday

TMI Tuesday: May 7, 2013
This week’s TMI Tuesday celebrates one of my favorite hobbies…masturbation.
Masturbation Month 2013



1. My favorite place to masturbate is _

My bed. Boring I know, but true cause that's where all the toys are!!

2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?

Yes sad but funny. Years ago I was homeless and working the street. Part of sex work on the street is not making yourself more vulnerable by having orgasms at work, so I spent a lot of time telling my body that it wasn't allowed to enjoy itself, needless to say my mind didn't enjoy any of it. Anyway, long story short, after days (I rarely slept) of sex I couldn't enjoy and an over active limbic system I would find myself seriously horny and if the one person I trusted- my boyfriend at the time, wasn't around I did what needed to be done- quickly ducked into an alley, pulled down my pants and furiously frigged. Honestly it took about 15 seconds to get relief! Good times! Lol


3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?

Hell ya! Can I say I do it for a living? I even wrote an article online about it because I wanted to promote it as an alternative to intercourse. Whether you and/or your partner are a virgin or you are on your period or have other reasons for not wanting penetration, or are looking for variety , I think it's damn sexy and super fun. Both partners get a chance to see exactly what each other likes- which is especially handy when no matter what technique or speed you use your SO has a habit of answering "just like that, you are doing great". Others have expressed that they find mm more intimate than other acts- which I get if you are shy about masturbating but I love it.

4. When was the last time you masturbated?

This morning

5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?

Yes

6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?

YES!!!! as long as they enjoy being watched of course.

Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?

Yes not sure if this is a different question than the camera one but I'm not ready to share it by link, not without some level of anonymity more than my middle name (Sangsara)


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OMG no longer just bisexual- joined the ranks of the polyexperienced!!!

WOW!!! so I have this client who absolutely loves pegging. When we first met I walked in with a few toys, max size 6" as most of the guys who contact me are just beginning to try new things- It's part of why I love my job, because I get to see that same face I saw with 3 guys in high school- the look of lost virginity and pure bliss!!!! Anyway I walked in and there were around 6 dildos and a harness on a towel on the bed. They ranged from 5x4 to get this- a 10x5 and a 8x6.5!!!! Guy can take serious bone!!!! We have fun together and have such a good rapport that we spend time together just hanging out. Well this weekend he helped me fulfill one of my few fantasies ( I'm too much of a realist for fantasizing but I'm learning- more on this soon involving a certain old flame), that of a threesome with a transgendered person. I def have desires for sex with transmen and transwomen, which is where the term "polysexual" comes in. For those of you new to this terminology please read this awesome article on Sexis by Freud13 called a-cliff-notes-guide-to LGBT terms.
Okay well this woman whom we will call X and my client D arranged a meeting. My sloppy self gets ready and as usual arrives 15 minutes late. It was one of the nicest hotels in town and this woman has rates that match mine?! Anyway as soon as we walked in I knew she was a true professional. Within minutes she was making out with D. I instantly felt underdressed, I mean I was in jeans and a hoodie with a messy knot of hair on top of my head and this woman was dressed to the 9s in spike heels and a skin tight dress, perfume, hair and makeup impeccable, lighting,music the whole bit. I admit I was intimidated- not by her gender identity but simply by her professionalism. On one hand it was impressive and on the other a hindrance to my comfort level. I excused myself and went to the bathroom to freshen up as a nervous layer of sweat trickled across my back. A few minutes later I realized that D was nervous too when I heard him call out to ask if I was changing. I took it as a "Hey get back out here and help me" that he later confirmed.
Out of the bathroom I came in my fav trashy lingerie peek-a-boobies cupless chemise from Leg Avenue and some cuban stockings to go with. I still felt sweaty and out of place but then I| remembered that this was all for my client and that since it was her show she was in charge, by then I relaxed.
This woman had an amazing body, she was waxed from eyebrows to toes without a hair left behind and had THE nicest, softest, creamy, tanned skin I have ever felt.Because of my style of lingerie, boobs easily became the focus and we compared hers to mine with our tongues. Mine for once were not the firmest in the comparison as she had just had them done a few weeks prior. Turned out we both have sensitive nipples. I asked her not to bite mine but she did it anyway.That was the first time that I slightly noticed her dark side or her Dominatrix personality. X also has a dungeon and does offer services to submissives that are interested. Listening to her I'm sure she does quite well but I thought it may have been wise to find out if D and I were actually into a power shift or got off on being dominated to the extent that she let loose on us.

Touching her was incredible but we both became self conscious when we realized that she had a better body than me (except the boobs of course) and was more well hung than D.. With each others reassurance we got through the hour and accomplished oral sex - given and received by all off us to all of us.
WoW she was incredible with her mouth on my clit for a good 15 minutes so that I achieved those baby orgasms, one after another but not full blown. I gave them both oral attention but what else is new? D got to give his very first  blow job and I got to watch! I grabbed a Cal Ex Couture Inspire
and worked a powerful climax out as I saw her masculinity shine through for the first time (other than her big cock of course) as she thrust herself in and out of his mouth. Yup, just like an annoying man- paying or not she did the head grab, slam her cock down your throat as you gag thing, which I know the occasional woman does enjoy- especially in BDSM circles but if my boundary against it is not respected I have been known to end the blow job and maybe the whole session. For a first blow job- a head slammer none the less he did surprisingly well. I had to giggle when I caught  her dirty talk "Ya I'm going to put an ad on Craigslist, guys will be lining up around the block to see you in my dungeon boy- $20 a pop they'll pay to fuck your hungry mouth" $20????!!! Come on give the guy more than that!
After that we all took turns with penetration- his male with a penis, hers female with a penis and mine female with a fake penis (aka a strap on) and I must say that although she was a bit rough after I assertively expressed that I don't like em big and I don't like em harsh, she still was quite an experience. I will definitely be looking for more opportunities like this in the future and am just as open as ever to sex with transwomen and transmen in my personal life.
A nite well spent!

authors note- sorry for the quick ending but I found this post from a few months ago unfinished and found it too important to not go published, nor was I willing to adlib details that aren't fresh in my mind.

My own complicated domain and site designed by someone else or something simple here?

Hi guys! So I own over 120 sex toys and as you know am an escort/sex toy reviewer. I have seriously been slacking in the writing department because my life has been chaos (and so has my schizophrenia) well with the changes to the Edenfantasys review program and no more free shipping to Canada comes some serious incentive to GET MY ASS IN GEAR and save the interested sponsors I have in Canada. I will stay on Eden because I have many toys to still review, they have been very good to me in the past 1.5 years and they pay me well for my vids which I am also allowed to post on my blog. The question is do I just start posting my reviews here and leave my own domain for later or do I try to continue with my overachiever  attempts to build my super duper perfect Sanctuary? I say stay here for now and worry about the amazing site  I actually have more to show than 30 vids and 32 written reviews on Edenfantasys?
Also, I thought that for my sponsors sakes and those of the somewhat unadventurous (to put it mildly) middle class that may be reading my reviews, I should separate the "Tales From the Trade" section into its own subdomain or separate site. The feedback I have gotten so far is that this section is what makes my site (if I can even call it that so far) different from others and therefore interesting. Please for the few of you reading this- let me know- do the existence of prostitution laws (they are quite different here in Canada) affect and/or upset you enough that you won't read my reviews or be interested in my sponsors sites? Do you think others will be that strongly affected?
I am serious this time! Blog writing at least a few times a week (I started to write everyday then got realistic) so please let me know!!!

First weekend in November....

  Wow so many new experiences!

 

 

So I've been doing more STW work lately and have had some very new experiences- some good, some not so good and one coming up that I am more excited than I have been in years! I wanted to get a bunch of reviews up first but then I realized I should get this down on paper,so to speak. Tomorrow I'm doing a trade - my services for web design/blog tutorial, which as you may have noticed I urgently need. Until then let me fill you in......

 

 

1. Part 2 of my first blow job:  I got paid to watch my client give his first real blow job ( I got paid by BOTH guys!) I couldn't help but question why!!! I swear watching him savour the taste was awesomer than doing it myself. I am def a voyeur if those I am watching are luvin every minute of it and wanting to share it. Otherwise I can't handle watching private acts. I have to be invited and I LOVED this invitation. 
2. Next: my usual hour and a half oral apt lasted 20 min and I still got paid in full. Plus he obviously had his best orgasm with me yet. Funny what happens once I know a client well enough to do my job right! Seriously it feels so good to know that your clients feel they really are getting their money's worth.
3. Then: I have a new working partner lets call her 'K'.'K' was supposed to join me and a new regular for a hot double pegging. He ate something that didn't agree with him at breakfast . Damn.
4. Unfortunately: I have been spoiled lately with all of my  p-spot clients- they have all been immaculate. This one was not and I swore he got off on it! It was like he has a cocky dominant personality in real life , asks to be submissive but really isn't. He made a mess of my bed.

One day I'll take a picture of my bed for you. The frame is GORGEOUS, absolutely gorgeous. It was made by my now deceased ( as of June 14 2012) father, whom I was very close to - so close that a rehab center ( did I mention that I am in recovery?!) once questioned whether he was " emotionally incestuous". Absurd Assholes! Guess that so many people in rehab come from such fucked up families that they couldn't recognize a healthy relationship when they saw it. But I'll write about that later in a "notes on my history" section. Anyway my dad was an expert craftsman- woodworker, furniture maker I should say , and he designed and built what will be an heirloom for me. It is the most valuable thing I ave ever owned- both sentimentally and monetarily. This asshole ( oh ya that's what I was talking about) made of mess of the sheets on this amazing bed that I tied him too. And I swore he was laughing about it in a self satisfied mockery of me cleaning it up way. First client in the last 3 months that I NEVER want to see again. I mentioned subscribing to my blog and he acted like I had to work for the follow. HA! Maybe I can think of something fitting to spend his money on,
BUT THEN: my client that had to cancel the threesome made up for any and all stress of the last week: He's surprising me with.................

A THREESOME WITH A SHE MALE!!!!     Pardon me for making it sound like a novelty , but that's how she advertises her self and the fact of the matter is , it IS a novelty to me- she's not of course but the experience of having sex with her and getting paid for it certainly will be!!!!! Thankyou D!!!

what you can expect in the days to come...

So, since several of you have so graciously joined my blog at this early date in its development, I thought i should give you an idea of what's coming up. Of course i want to do reviews as my main focus. reviews of a whole lot of sexy stuff -vibrators, dildos, kegel exercisers, bullets and eggs, light bdsm including restraints, floggers and collars, lingerie, books and dvds, lubes, stim gels, massage and bath products, the occasional beauty product or piece of sex furniture and perhaps something totally out there every once in awhile.

First on the agenda?
Cuban heels stockings by Coquette
FFE Vibrating 4.5" dildo
Icicles #24
FF Ocean (plus video)
Njoy Fun joy
Jimmyjane Form 6
Jopen vr2,3 &5
Tristan Taorminos Ultimate Kink
A Coquette demi cup bustier
Bamboo mens pajama bottoms
Pink Spunk Lube
Ocean Sensuals G Gel
Aslan Jaguar cuffs and ankle restraints
and many more...........

Plus I want to include a "Quest for the perfect clitoral stimulation gel" section
Give you more "tales from the trade"
and I will write up a sex toy materials section and try to keep a database of lube/bath and beauty products ingredients.

Watch Out for my BELATED GRAND OPENING EVOLVED NOVELTIES GIVEAWAY!!! you could win a Speeding Bullet or Roulette toy!

Thanx for sticking with me guys I'm learning the tech part as fast as I can and I appreciate your support.
Sangsara

Why I love Ohhh Canada

Why I love OHHHCANADA.CA

So, since I began my journey into life with sex toys and products I have scoured the web for the best sources of everything from vibrators to tantra workshops. I have found several decent sites and a whole lot of crap. Internet buying is tough. Especially when it comes to sex toys and a few sites have sailed heads above the rest. A few of these I have had to forgo a relationship with simply because thy are American or British and I can't handle the shipping charges. The ones I am referring to are well known and I'm sure I will mention them at some later date. As my readers know, I began my sex toy reviewer apprenticeship on Edenfantasys and Eden has been good to me. Other blog posts I have written and will write toot Eden's horn but on this side of the border there are only 4 that are really in competition. Pink cherry Canada is great for their clearance sales but all round a website started by a woman named Katrina McKay sails heads above the rest for a number of reasons. First of all their customer service is impeccable. I bought my first web sex toy purchase from OHHHCANADA- the Lelo Gigi and though the toy turned out not to be compatible with my anatomy , my purchase turned out to bring something o my attention. A month or so after I bought Gigi I had trouble charging her. She would work for 10 seconds or so and then just die. Since Lelo is a luxury toy company, all of their products are under a fantastic warranty. If it breaks due to manufacturer fallacy in the first year they will replace the toy outright. If it breaks in 10 years they will honor a 50% off any Lelo purchase coupon. I was going to send the toy back to Lelo, but I decided to contact Katrina first ( and Katrina herself actually answered my letter!) much to my pleasant surprise not only did she offer to replace the toy herself ( saving me shipping it to Lelia home base in Sweden) BUT she offered me credit for ANYTHING on her web site!!, since I had problems with Gigi getting painfully caught on my pubic bone I jumped at the chance and since then timing was right - purchased a we- vibe 3 to be delivered to my friend for her wedding! Treatment like this alone would have kept me coming back. Then I read the fine print on OHHHCANADA and found out that they will honor return of ANY toy purchased from them - not just the luxury ones under warranty from the manufacturer. No one offers this - no one. Especially with no questions asked - I mean you wouldn't believe the things that some people will try with a sex toy!

But seriously there's another reason why I'm tooting OHHHCANADA'S horn- one that EVERY customer will be happy with- her prices are unheard of. Many toys are less expensive than on the sites of the manufacturers themselves. Think it's not much of a difference? Think again- she sells Lelo Gigi for $85 guess how much Gigi usually goes for online? $130! $200 retail!!! Even better? Leaf spirit-. An amazing rechargeable, waterproof, Eco friendly, silicone clitoral vibe $70 compared to $120 elsewhere. I have no clue how she manages to offer these prices I mean just a $20 cheaper price would put her on the map.

Plus Katrina has been supportive of me and my blog from day 1. My advice? Read my reviews and then hop on over to www.ohhhhcanada.ca They do have a $10 flat rate shipping charge but with prices like these who the hell cares! Neither OHHHCANADA  nor Katrina have paid Me or even asked for me to write this post . Yes I know it sounds like I'm a suck up and I guess I am - but a 100% sincere suck up!

MY FIRST BLOW JOB!!!!(receiving!!) ***warning explicit

OMG I had an amazing new experience!  I got to find out what it's like to get your cock sucked!!

I had an appt. with a new client this week, involving a light bdsm kit, and gender play. When I arrived he was in a tight see thru strappy tank top, and see thru boyshorts. He quickly put on the collar I brought and we talked about his fantasies. The only request he had about what not to do was be verbally abusive- which I don't enjoy anyway so I happily agreed to it. After introducing him to the 2 bags of toys (mostly insertable vibes) that I brought and getting dressed up in a black satin and lace waist cincher by Shirley G, Leg avenue stockings and the sportsheets vibrating corset harness (review coming soon) we started to play. I got to play as a mildly dominant dom but my favourite part was when he got down on his knees and began to perform oral sex on the Tantus goddess dildo that I was wearing. I have always dreamed of wearing a strap-on, bending a sexy chick over and slapping her ass as I penetrated her- and I'm sure I will eventually accomplish this fantasy, but this was an experience I didn't realize I would love so much. Sexis has an article about this exact act by Mr. Sexsmith here. I didn't ask him to do it and I was already going back and forth between enjoying an idea of what it must feel like to wield a cock and at the same time feeling like a bumbling idiot who couldn't do a simple task right, when I looked down and saw him put the goddess in his mouth. I admit it- It was totally HOT!!! Granted, I couldn't actually feel his lips around it but I could see it and I felt a mix of my feminine power as well as a masculine.  My new thing is feeling safe enough to get off with my clients so the evening ended in mutual masturbation- come on, who doesn't want to get paid to jack off? Makes me feel like this is too good be true- I'm an agnostic, but I swear I wonder if in my last life I was a catholic? Cause I've actually been feeling guilty about accepting money when I'm cumming too! Next time he wants to add a third person to the mix but i'm not sure what gender I prefer- I'll keep you informed!